I agree with starry, because so much has change with folks systems and other people deal with. We have gotten to so much how can you expect host when you study other folks and are awakened to life in such a new way. How can we expect anything less the hurts are oweee way long the need to tough it outweights the host...We lose some abilities and also gains some knowledge ......We feel a switchyness that will probably either be a very long time away in such ways and not really knowing where the host has gone...