I am really sorry Boogie. I recall you telling the story of what she did to you and it's really unforgivable.......your feelings are valid and nobody in your situation would likely feel any different. It must have been terrible to go through that today! I really wish you could get employment elsewhere which would pay what you're worth. All the DBT skills in the world won't make this situation any better really.......I would always be so worried about what she might do next! It would be maddening!!! But those DBT skills will make it easier to cope with and lessen the frequency of those revenge thoughts. I'm very sorry you went through this today....them throwing her a party must have felt like such a painful betrayal (((hugs)))