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Old Sep 19, 2017, 10:00 AM
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Originally Posted by Shazerac View Post
This may sound like any easy or cowardly way out. But when someone starts flooding me with text messages, I just stop responding them. Then they can have their rant and I don't have to get caught up in it. If they come at me later about it, I'm honest and say sorry, but I had to take a step back, I was overwhelmed and couldn't handle it.

I know in this society everyone seems to think that when someone sends you a text message you HAVE to respond or you are "rude." I say NO...just no. Everyone needs boundaries, especially in a close relationship. You have every right to draw a line and say enough is enough.
Exactly how I felt about it. Through my 4 years of alcoholism recovery, I have made boundaries a very substantial part of my life. We never used to have instant texting, but now it seems like everyone is just expected to respond to every request. It's madness and it damages relationships.
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