Hi
I'm a 42 year old male who uses a pair of underwear - my own - when I am alone. I don't use it for sexual release, but find threading it through my fingers is pleasant, soft and cool.
I had a small piece of lambs wool when I was a young child, like many small children, but at some stage must've stopped with it.
I have used the underwear for many years now and have spoken to therapist about it. My opinion is that it doesn't impact negatively on others - I keep it a secret - and if it helps me cope with anxiety, then it is okay.
I don't think it is perverse, just something I do to assist myself.

I would like to stop doing it when (or if!!) I have a girlfriend or wife.

Interested in opinions, experiences, etc.
Thanks
Nick