Today I'd approached an old friend, a lifetime friend I have not been in touch with for three years. I was very anxious she'd blow me off, because she could easily have the impression I had blown her off.*

To my amazement, she was thrilled to hear from me.
This was my first attempt to get back in touch with friends since a traumatic brain injury. She was very kind and understanding, which affirms my risk-taking in this case.

*I am still recovering from a random assault, where I'd had a head injury, amnesia and more PTSD. I'd dropped out of sight immediately after the incident. I am just starting to remember some things, things of all types, including how to get in touch with some friends, etc. Strange, but true. I've been very withdrawn socially. I think it's been 4 years since the assault (will have to check my records). So, for most friendships, I'd just disappeared, which can lead to hurt (and angry) friends sometimes.

It's difficult to reach out in hopes of re-uniting with friends/family.
In at least some cases, it will be worth the effort.


WC