Hello. Welcome to the forum

It seems like this woman did take advantage of you from what you say . it sounds like she has alot of issues herself .

Once i got so drunk and high and passed out in a house full of men and one of them raped me . but because of the whole circumstances of everything that happened that night i knew i wouldn't be able to report it and wouldn't be believed . its a horrible situation and I still get angry about it because that man will never be punished for what he did . he also stole my phone .

I think counselling would be a good idea. Don't let people tell you that it didn't happen because they don't know for sure .

If you are on benefits she shouldn't be able to take much of your money . I wish you all the best and hope you get the answers you are looking for and the support you need .