She is in rehab because she basically starved herself for 3 months and is very weak and has lost the feeling in a lot of her body. Obviously she is in no condition to have sex now, but I'm hopeful that we can someday return to a halfway normal life. Her recent physical issues started in May, but the "I don't feel like it tonight", started almost 6 years ago. I just can't figure out why she tried so hard to impress me with her sexual abilities and then, poof! her desire is gone. It's like turning off Niagara Falls, She spent her whole life unable to get enough sex, and the minute we become intimate, She's had enough? It's not helping my ego any. It's the kind of thing that really gets into your head.