dragon..you are lucky then, I do have a good wife don't get me wrong, its just we don't communicate well if we have a problem, I feel it is probably both our fault for this partly, and I am not deprived sexualy or nothing...almost every other day just about, even after all these years, rarely do more than 2 days pass before I am getting lucky.....if it was my birthday, that would be my favorite things to do all day LOL..... I guess she knows how to keep me complaisant...but it would still be nice to get to express my opinion if it is not the same as hers without friction.

I guess since we have been living together since we were 17years old....16 + years.....things change and I have to learn to change with them, we have been through allot, 2 miscarraiges, and having 2 children...plus just reaching our own maturity......

It has not always been like it is now since I really did not have much to complain about when I was younger since it was a whole different life style for me then than now, I do have allot more to be happy about though, since there is 4 of us now....but stress works on both of us every now and then

though it still would be nice to be listen'd to once and awhile when I am stressed. We normally just get along fine ,its just when a problem does arise ...most of the time something stupid...there is just no way of expressing how I feel..she is a good women, she is just hard to communicate with far as problems go for me

example: if she asks if I like a outfit better than another she'll put both on then ask me which I like better.

If I say the blue one. She might say well it really don't go with these black boots and jeans. Do you really think it looks good?? I really think the red one looks better with these boots.

Then I might say. Well if you already knew then why did you ask me ??

Then from there she might get on defence and make a comment...that I might follow with my own and it becomes a stupid argument...

I won't fall for that one any more though....I know to just say something like.

Let me see the red one again, ya I think your right it does look better

oh well..I'll never know it all I quess

Cyran...you are right ...in my house she rules, first the kids then the wife then me...I put a dog door in, so I did not have to spend as much time with her, and have to be last in line ...but she still demands some attention also..but we live in the country were she has woods and fields to roam and stays busy out there

We went out tonight and I let her do the drinking since I had to drive, so she is already sleeping, she had a blast I think LOL

HAPPY NEW YEAR ALL