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Originally Posted by sera2775
Hi
I'm a 42 year old male who uses a pair of underwear - my own - when I am alone. I don't use it for sexual release, but find threading it through my fingers is pleasant, soft and cool.
I had a small piece of lambs wool when I was a young child, like many small children, but at some stage must've stopped with it.
I have used the underwear for many years now and have spoken to therapist about it. My opinion is that it doesn't impact negatively on others - I keep it a secret - and if it helps me cope with anxiety, then it is okay.
I don't think it is perverse, just something I do to assist myself.
I would like to stop doing it when (or if!!) I have a girlfriend or wife.
Interested in opinions, experiences, etc.
Thanks
Nick
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I too have various security items. I am an adult female. one of mine used to be my very first Bra. I outgrew it physically before it wore out so I kept it. my family didnt think it was strange but did require it remain in the bedroom, one of my siblings during a school class took the time to locate the same fabrics/ items in multi colors and made me a blanket out of it and the new like fabrics. I still have it and use it today. I am married. my wife knows where I got this blanket and what its beginnings were. one of my children has a blanket made by their aunt in the same fabrics / items and in many colors as the potty training pants, he used to carry around. that blanket is well traveled and cared for. my sibling is in the process of making a blanket out of the cloth bodies of worn out glow worms (toy light up doll for toddlers) for another one of my children for christmas.