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Originally Posted by ruh roh
I do think bought flowers assume a certain intimacy that is outside of the therapy relationship. Picked flowers, less so.
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I'm not sure why bought flowers are more intimate than picked flowers! My favorite flowers ever were given to me by a boy who picked them. It was a tiny bouquet, and it was so special because he picked them. Anyone can buy flowers from a flower stand, but going out and picking flowers requires actual effort.
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Originally Posted by growlycat
Telling t the fantasy seems like it would be more powerful than actually getting him flowers, right?
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Stop being so reasonable!
But, in all seriousness, I really don't want to talk about those fantasies right now. He and I both need a break from the death stuff. Maybe I should wait till I'm ready to talk about the fantasies before giving him flowers.
But...I just want to do something nice like give him flowers. Oy, I'll think about it.