Hey Guys,
So my boyfriend and i have been together for 6 years, up until the past couple of months we had sex almost everyday.
Now we have hit a big dry spell, which started because we had family visit and we shared a room for a couple of weeks.
Our sex life never peaked back, i feel it may be my fault because i felt somewhat relieved that i didn't have to have so much sex and i think i preferred it.
Well now all my boyfriend talks about is sex, how much we are not having it, how a relationship can't work without sex & that if our sex life doesn't go back to normal then we might as well end our relationship.
This attitude towards our relationship turns me off, and now i can't say no to sex if i have stomach ache or i'm not feeling it because he makes a big argument out of it.
I am so stressed out over it, i want to get our sex life back but it's a lot of pressure and a turn off when our whole relationship relies on it.
I have calmly spoke to him about it, but it doesn't seem to make any difference his reaction to not having sex.
Any advice please?
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