no here where I am this is not fat shaming. here where I am fat shaming is things like...

sitting down to lunch and someone saying.... omg are you sure you want that, its got so many calories in it and it looks like you have enough on you already. fat shaming here is being online and seeing a photo of a person and pointing out all their bulges, cellulose, big bones, bigness and so on.

asking someone whether they are under weight, normal or overweight what their favorite foods are is making conversation. my wife and I frequently ask our friends what their favorites are. i get asked by many friends, family and others that I may meet what is my favorite....

if you read the coffee house social threads you will find many examples of people asking each other what their various favorites are regardless of whether the member is male female underweight, normal weight or overweight.....

sometimes not everyone is asked the same question here where I am, it doesnt mean they are fat shaming or skinny shaming or normal shaming, parent shaming and diet shaming and all other forms. it just means those that ask me and not someone else is just curious and want to know what my favorites are. and I and my friends do not feel shamed by being asked or being left out of being asked.