Elsa, I'm deeply sorry you are in so much pain. And I agree with you that JUST and PAIN should not be used in the same sentence.

I don't feel that you are offensive.

I've fallen into the dumps now. I had a good cry, took a PRN.

Maybe it's better for all concerned that I go back to only posting on this forum when I am depressed or hurting. It seems to the best thing to do. It's worked in the past and is usually the reason I take a break from the forum.

If people get upset and feel worthless or shamed when I post about feeling happy or sharing a tool that works for me then I'm not really helping anyone. I dont want to do that. I have to face up to it and move on.