campy... what i got was that he was saying there is an inherent tension between wanting/being strongly attached and running or fleeing.... and that is ok that there be tension, it's normal. He says to accept the tension... i think he's saying that the tension can cause fear but it doesn't have to. But that is just what i felt from reading it.

sorry Solli... i do not want to divert anything away from your T high right now. It's a nice place to be, safe, secure. The world takes all that away soon enough... enjoy the moment babycakes.