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Old Sep 22, 2017, 01:31 PM
BudFox BudFox is offline
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Originally Posted by DP_2017 View Post

I also am realizing my "feelings" are fake and basically just delusions, if they were real, he would feel it too or it wouldn't be just a common therapy thing...
I see it differently. I think the therapy relationship is fake, but it generates real feelings. That to me is the essential cruelty. Real feelings need somewhere to go. Therapy brings them out and then just plays with them. These unrequited feelings are supposed to be a vehicle for healing or growth or some such BS. I found it miserable.
Thanks for this!
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