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Originally Posted by rufiki
It's not like I expect her to be some sex freak. And obviously, right now, she is not capable of doing anything. But she's only been on psych meds for 2 months now, But her sex drive seemed to go away 6 years ago, I can't exactly sat, but probably within the first month we were dating. I would never expect anything from her at this time. And as for the time I was bathing her, I never even mentioned that it was turning me on, She noticed the wet spot on the crotch of my jeans and told me I was sick for getting turned on while she was sick. I kept my mouth shut.
Look, right now, I don't have anything going on in my life, just a sick girlfriend, and work, which together take up all of my time. I've been thinking a lot about what might be out of whack about my life, and my sex life is one of them, but I could never talk about this in real life.
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Clear up, please, your respective ages? 20 + 31 + (at least) 6 = 57? Are you 57? That would make her 53-years-old?
I lost my erections and libido for 18 years due to a long-lived bipolar major depressive state. Now, at 58, I’m back to what passes as 1/2 normal. For me.
No sexual being should deny his/her/their sexual desires and, yes, needs. You’ve lived with this woman for six years (?) so you don’t want to leave her while she’s ill, but...
...I’m a big believer in honest talk. Is the discussion that you’re having here one that you’ve engaged in in the ‘real world’? It should be. Maybe soon.