Okay, so I identify with pretty much all the symptoms except the "Changing life plans at the drop of a hat" part. Like I don't do that. I freak out if I feel like I'm not progressing toward anything so I usually try to stick to goals whether they are rational or not.

Also, a popular thing I hear from people when I suggest I might be borderline is "That would mean you have no empathy" what's the deal with that? Nowhere is that mentioned in the symptoms, but everyone seems to think that if you have empathy you can't be borderline.