We're going to call her DC, because it fits her name in a sort-of way. She knows I have feelings for her, deeply, but she has a boyfriend. She strung me along for over a week before I found out she was in a relationship, when HE messaged me. That was over a month ago. Ever since, whenever she's drinking, or stoned, she'll start messaging me, even in the early early early morning or late at night. She puts at these hearts and things, has used "(my name) love" and other things that are misleading. I found it abhorrent when she didn't tell me she had a boyfriend before and I'm not asking her if she still does. I don't want someone who's doing that to me but I do want her at the same time and have to a degree since I met her. Anyone know how to cope with this and has that method worked?