Everyone likes different things. I can't stand pushy people like this.

I had several friends like that and eventually I cut or limit contact. I had to limit my interactions with old friend who insisted every year that I should fly to this one destination and we should rent a car and drive around in montains with her and other friend. I don't want to do that. I love to travel but not with girlfriends and not to drive in mountains. She also insisted a year after year for the past 10 years that I must inform her when I visit my daughter because she'll fly there too and we will hang out. The answer is always NO. And she is always mad about it. I now only respond to her once in 6 months.

People just can't take no for an answer.

Since it's a family it's harder to cut contacts so you might reply once a year with merry Christmas. Good enough