what do you mean?

life isn't the type of game where if you mess up you can just start again (if you mess up, that's it!).

life is no virtual reality simulator

maybe you think that because, well... I don't know.

because maybe everyone around you has more than you have, or because you just can't figure out what to do next, or what you want,

and you know what actually makes your statement so real?

"losing at life" is actually a well known and valid phrase

truth is, life is about you, and what you want from it.

you may not have lots of friends, for example, but 1 really good friend who understands you

or, you may not have done so well at school, but have a really awesome job

etc