Hearing the rude and ill-informed comments looking to blame this child's behavior on the mother-- just because she used artificial insinuation to conceive her children-- is extremely disheartening. Children raised by single parents and gay parents can be just as well-adjusted as children raised by a mother and father. Leave the prejudice out of this thread, which is about how to help the OP who is deciding whether or not she wants to continue working for this family. Calling artificial insemination and single mothers amoral is extremely offensive. Are you next going to call widows raising children amoral?