I planned for a friend to come stay at my house for a couple nights so she could get out of her house and have some relaxation. I know she won't be able to sleep on the couch so I also offered her my bed. I should never have offered her either. I'm okay with it, but some of my parts are not having it. Offering her the bed is simply not okay. It's time for me to pick her up and I feel so sick I haven't been able to do anything to clean up the house at all. I have a migraine, nausea, and dizziness so bad all I can do is sit. I don't know how to tell my friend I need to cancel, especially since I know she has her own issues with trust and being let down. Insider negotiation is simply not happening. Any advice or encouragement would be much appreciated.