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Old Sep 23, 2017, 04:23 PM
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Originally Posted by ArtieSwimsOn View Post
informal couch poll: if you said "i love you" to your t and they responded "I know", would that bother you? i know there are couchies who would never utter such a thing to a t, but for those that would....?

This was even a dream "I love you" - not a literal one. I had just read from my notebook that in the dream I had telepathically sent that to her. And she says "I know" in response to a dream "I love you".

Maybe I'm completely off base, but it felt very dismissive. Or it's just cuz it was part of a dream and I wasn't wanting any response at all other than to work with the dream as a whole.

I dunno.

Just curious.
I don't think it'd bother me. The first time I told him I love him he said he was touched. One time I asked if he loves me. He said love is a difficult and loaded word especially given my history. And he said I care about you very much.
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