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Originally Posted by ArtieSwimsOn
informal couch poll: if you said "i love you" to your t and they responded "I know", would that bother you? i know there are couchies who would never utter such a thing to a t, but for those that would....?
This was even a dream "I love you" - not a literal one. I had just read from my notebook that in the dream I had telepathically sent that to her. And she says "I know" in response to a dream "I love you".
Maybe I'm completely off base, but it felt very dismissive. Or it's just cuz it was part of a dream and I wasn't wanting any response at all other than to work with the dream as a whole.
I dunno. 
Just curious. |
Would be annoyed. I said this to M and he said "oh, you are so sweet!"
This irritated me. I felt patronized. And.... it had been about 8 years since I had said this to anyone, so I really don't take it lightly. But we never talked about it.
Especially itritating because he says things upon occasion like "you are loved here" and "L and I love you" but never an "I" "love" "you"
