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Originally Posted by ArtieSwimsOn
informal couch poll: if you said "i love you" to your t and they responded "I know", would that bother you? i know there are couchies who would never utter such a thing to a t, but for those that would...
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I would probably never utter such a thing to a tbut if I did, "I know" would strike me as patronizing and distancing. There's gotta be a way for a to respond to "I love you" that is genuine and feels good to both t and client... maybe if the t couldn't bring herself to say, "I love you too," she could say something like "I'm touched to hear you say that. I care a great deal about you too?" That would feel far less s#!tty to me.