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Originally Posted by ArtieSwimsOn
informal couch poll: if you said "i love you" to your t and they responded "I know", would that bother you? i know there are couchies who would never utter such a thing to a t, but for those that would....?
This was even a dream "I love you" - not a literal one. I had just read from my notebook that in the dream I had telepathically sent that to her. And she says "I know" in response to a dream "I love you".
Maybe I'm completely off base, but it felt very dismissive. Or it's just cuz it was part of a dream and I wasn't wanting any response at all other than to work with the dream as a whole.
I dunno. 
Just curious.
eta: when i've said that to her in the past not as part of a dream, she's responded 'thank you' or 'i'm touched' or even just 'awww' by itself and those were all fine. but this bugs me. |
It would not bother me in the slightest, especially since it is not the first time she's responded to the statement. Plus you're reporting a dream "I love you." It's just acknowledging a fact. If it were the first time you'd said it, and said by real-art, not dream-art, it would be a poor response, yes, but I don't see how it is under the circumstances.
I kind of wonder if this is a sign of your attachment turning insecure again. A couple days ago you were talking and how much more mature and secure your relationship with her was. And yesterday you said that you felt you couldn't let yourself be happy in life without finding something to worry about. Same thing?