Please, dont feel bad. My main concern would be how to get assurance that there was truth in advertising, that this was not "bait and switch", ie hes sending me somebody elses picture!

My personal feeling - i do have a profile on okcupid - while i theoretically am open to "casual outings", there definitely would have to be an irresistable attraction. But that would be like starting up an old car thats been sitting in a garage for the past ghxty years. He better have some awesome jumper cables! Otherwise, yeah its gonna take a lot of coaxing... (thats not co-axing!)