Well, I finally told my boyfriend. He interrupted me to ask if the pastor were staying overnight at my home. Thank goodness we got that cleared up before I told him about this! LOL... anyway, as things stand right now, I have been informed that my friend looks to be around 80 (although he is actually 72) and that he is bent over and walks with a cane. This should help a little, and I already told my boyfriend that I will want him to meet my pastor friend and that it will be OK for him to discuss his and my relationship if he even wants to.

He took it well, seemed to understand that there is no "competition" involved and that this is a married man who is an old friend and a previous pastor of mine, whose wife and I are like best friends.

So I am relieved that my boyfriend took this so well.

However, he is sick, he had his flu shot yesterday and came down with a cold shortly thereafter. He thinks it might be a reaction to the flu shot, but we are not sure. It could be that he just caught a cold! So, please pray for him if you pray, thanks. His name is Kenneth.

And my pastor friend's name is David, but I call him Pastor Gump. Now there is a LONG story that goes behind that one, something about that famous like from the FOREST GUMP movie about the box of chocolates. And my best friend and the pastor call me "the gumpette." That is my nickname that they always lovingly call me. And she (his wife) is Madam Gump, of course! LOL...