Boogie, be proud of yourself....... not many people who went through what you did would be able to work around this women at all. I think you've shown a great amount of self control considering the circumstances. I'm glad you aren't thinking of revenge.....it's stopping to their level and blurs the lines on whose right and wrong. You are the one whose right in this situation and you know it deep inside.....don't let anyone take that from you.