You sound like such a great guy Boogie.......what she did was awful and unforgivable. You are handling yourself much better than most would. I'm glad you have no desire to harm her physically. I can understand wanting to confront her. I'm surprised after what happened that HR would let you guys work together at all. But you've managed and that has taken great strength. I'm sorry for all you went through as a result of her. Stuff like that gives me Opel PTSD for life! Did you have mental illness before this happened?