one thing I think I can say as fact nowhere..if your son is like I was....he wants to be with you no matter what others say about you..he probably has a idea your really cool and others have you pegged wrong...atleast thats what I thought about mine

he just left when I was 1 or 2 though I quess...but when I was about 17 my grandmother called me..since I was already out on my own...and said he was in a christian rehab in the mountains of Boone NC..and had no where to go, so I went and got him, got him a job and let him live with me ......man what a "MISTAKE".....I quess he really was as bad as others said...oh well..I won't get into all that though

Atleast from what I know of you you seem to be collected,and atleast care about your son