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Originally Posted by Patagonia
So it sounds like he's pressuring you, threatening you & using sex as a weapon. You are not giving full consent to sex, if you don't feel like having it. You're obliging him with sex.
Not a great sign for your relationship, but enlightening non the least.
What is his reaction when you say no?
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He tends to get annoyed and say that i keep turning him away and that it seems like im not attracted to him anymore, then i defend myself and we get into an argument and he always seems to come back to the topic of us being better apart, to then 10 mins later say that he doesn't want to with anyone else he just wants our sex life to go back to normal. I just can't understand how we can be together for six years then suddenly he has a personality change like this just over having less sex. How can it be more important than making the other person happy! plus he never is spontaneous or romantic anymore, just "do you wanna have sex then?"