Hi. My mom lost her job last year and at the same time I got a huge promotion. I live at home with my mom and sister and ended up taking over all the financial responsibilities leaving nothing for myself, I don't even go out with friends anymore because I have to pay bills etc. Mom cannot seem to find work, it's been over a year now. My sister is in university, I am paying for her fees. My sister and I do not get along well, so I have ask my mom to speak to my sister to get part time work but nothing ever seems to happen, she plays online games on weekends and holidays and sleeps over at her boyfriends for numerous days at a time instead of looking for work to help, she does not even help with household chores. Ive asked them to help me out so many times.
I'm so depressed because I'm unable to live my own life. I need help I'm tired of asking the same thing over and over.
I've even made an ultimatum that if my sister does not get work part time I will not be paying her university fees.
I've become mean and bitter, and hating myself more everyday. I need help.