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Old Sep 24, 2017, 01:25 PM
Depressed-Fiance Depressed-Fiance is offline
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Originally Posted by Kruick View Post
Narcissists thrive on control. All of your reactions only make them feel more important than you. They think that nobody else in the world is better than them, and thrive on the attention you give them. Positive or negative, they seek to control and undermine you.
I actually think you have nailed it on the head. It really is all about control for the Narcissist.

Something I realised in my last relationship was that slowly she undermined me, began to control and her mood fluctuated at the flick of a switch.

It's amazing in a way just how much we can learn about Narcism as if you are unfortunate enough to be a victim to one then you can very much see how the mould 'fits' from their behaviour.