LEX: If your regular doc is a male, you could ask him to refer you to a female gynecologist. I don't believe you have to tell him why. Just say it's personal. Every woman needs a gynecologist. Might as well be a female, since that would make it easier for you. I'm for getting what you need, not what others think you need.

PS: Detrol, a prescription drug, works for me. I put up with the dry mouth in order to get the other benefits it offers. I use mild sugarless cough drops for the dry mouth. I also drink more during the day. Then I limit liquid after 6pm. WORKS!

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