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Originally Posted by golden_eve
I know I was seemingly judgemental, and if that caused an issue for you, I do apologize.
But now I am confused. Your original post said that you are jealous of your friend who is hooking up with loose women in foreign countries, who is living out your aspirations, and now you're saying something different, ie, that you don't want to just hook up with women, that you want the social connection and interaction. Yet, originally you also stated that you want to travel (mainly) to meet attractive women. This all seems contradictory to me, so it's hard to tell what you're really after.
I am willing to support anxiety issues and it's great that you love to travel, but I have trouble with the objectification of women. Your whole premise revolves around attractiveness, being attractive and women being attractive to you... it just seems... well, there is just a whole lot more beneath the surface to people than just looks, and I'm afraid that you keep missing this point. In saying this, I don't mean to upset you...
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Originally Posted by Shadix
A major aspect of traveling I want to enjoy is being able to meet and hang out with attractive interesting women from other parts of the world
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Yes I would like to have some sexual experiences, but I never said that was all I was looking for or even the main thing. If you see casual sex as wrong, that is your opinion, but it's a thing that people do and it is considered perfectly normal in modern society. I know at least a few people posting on here have mentioned having had casual sex.
But yes, I also want social connection. I have another friend who went to one of these countries and only hooked up with prostitutes. I didn't envy him. I actually pitied him. But this friend I am talking about now is attractive and he will without a doubt find girls interested in connecting with him. I know he intends on meeting girls there because he is using a messaging app that also functions like Tinder. In fact that's how I found out he was there. Pretty much nobody in the U.S. uses this app, but I got it so I could keep in touch with a friend who went to China. I noticed he was also on there and his profile said where his location was.
And yes, I know there is more to people than just looks. I never suggested that looks is all that matters to me. But there is no denying that most of us generally seek to date people we are physically attracted to. And I think that as a young physically attractive male I will have much more opportunities to connect with women than as an older unattractive male.