I can safely say LOVE and LIKE are completely different My story is I LOVE my two boys, but they have chosent their lying, theiving, abusive father but LYING, etc...
I don't like them, I don't want them to live with them, but I love them unconditionally at the same time. I never NEVER not love them, but at this moment, it burns, it hurts, it rips me up inside that they continue to listen to their father tell them lies about me and in fact lie about me themselves.
Now as for my Moggles, I love AND like him...most of the time..hehe. So I am just of the opinion they are two different things. But even deeper if you wanna take it down another layer...fundamentally, basically you love your brother...it helped me to look deeper and contemplate what I really didnt like and one thing that kept coming up were things, accidents, incidents, emotions that interfered...finally, i realized that it wasnt actually the person, but what they DID is what bothered me the most. Now when I feel malaligned, I ponder and sometimes, (for example) I tell mogs he is an *** as there was no logical reason for whatever he did that was rude, unkind, unthoughtful, whatever i percieved as bad...other times I am able to sit down and write him an email and tell him the specific thing that changed the tide and hurt me. It feels great getting it off my chest.
I wish you well.

melanie