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Originally Posted by divine1966
If you worry about social reputation, you might date or look for casual hook ups further from home but don't have to wait until you are overseas. You can do weekend trips that won't require days off work. Leave Friday night and go to places few hours away in your state or other states near by. Unless you are a celebrity, no one will know you 2-3 hours drive, heck even one hour away bet no one knows there. Your dating life isn't ruined just because you can't go overseas.
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Yeah, this is a good point I guess. But there is more to it than just the hooking up thing. I made a couple ppsts above that did not get approved yet, in one of them I explained it a bit more. International travel is something very important to me and I feel like there are way too many places on mu bucket list to be waiting around another year. It would be nice if I could have more of those experiences while I am still young.
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Originally Posted by divine1966
Only in movies local girls show foreign guys around their towns. It might happen once in awhile in real life but it's very very unlikely. And they certainly wouldn't just do it because you are attractive. Why would they bother? I travelled all over the place and am social and look good yet no local people ever showed me around for no reason. It's not a common occurrence. Women wouldn't just approach you because you look good and start showing you social scene or hooking up with you. They will not.
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Lol, I know it doesn't happen like that. But there are venues where young people mingle and guys often do end up meeting and hanging out with local girls as well as other travelers. Also guys use dating apps to meet girls, like my friend for example is on WeChat and I am fairly certain it is for dating purposes. I am not getting this from movies, I know about it because I saw it happening last time I traveled. I didn't get to partake in any of that, but I promised myself that next time I will. And that hasn't happened yet.