Nowhere you are right it is a two way street...the only problem is I was driving a Hummer and she was in a Yugo...What I am trying to say is she was willing to give as much as she could and all I did was take...but I have gone green with my road choice and realized that I was taking more than I should...so here I sit in my litte golf cart hoping to get a chance to drive down that road again!!!!!