Of course using dating apps is a good idea. But the point is there is no need to travel overseas in order to meet girls on dating apps or mingle with them in social settings. Like I said if you want to be discreet, then just go to a neighbour town or next state over.

International travel is good but as you see it's not always possible with work schedules and not everyone can afford it. Yes travelling is easier when you still young and in a good shape, but you have many years ahead of you. I am still travelling with no problems and enjoy it just as much and I am 51. My parents slowed down on travelling as my dad approached 80, but he is thinking he might still go on another trip. At 29 life isn't over. Also you can travel in any season if you choose right locations. Most of Central and Western Europe isn't that cold on the winter.

If you want to travel overseas because you want to meet girls while you are young, then like I said you don't need to go overseas.

Also if you like international travel but don't have lengthy vacation time at right season, you can travel international but not overseas. Canada. Mexico. Carribean islands. I don't know how far you are from Canada but there are ton of exciting places there AND social scene.

We can't always have what we want. It's part of growing up. Accepting certain things or change if you can. Some people get flexible schedule and being able to take vacations. Depends on your job. You can look for a different one but frankly very few jobs would give you much flexibility re vacations.