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Originally Posted by atisketatasket
Unconditional positive regard for a therapist?
Uh, no. Not after the things I have seen them pull on me. I'm quite happy to have UPR for real people in my life (heck, I had UPR for future ex for years), but not therapists.
Though I do agree forgiveness is for oneself.
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Unconditional positive regard means seeing things (people) as they really are and accepting that reality, not: seeing them as one wishes them to be and ignoring reality - i think im the queen of that.