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Old Sep 26, 2017, 08:16 AM
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Originally Posted by atisketatasket View Post
Unconditional positive regard for a therapist?

Uh, no. Not after the things I have seen them pull on me. I'm quite happy to have UPR for real people in my life (heck, I had UPR for future ex for years), but not therapists.

Though I do agree forgiveness is for oneself.
Unconditional positive regard means seeing things (people) as they really are and accepting that reality, not: seeing them as one wishes them to be and ignoring reality - i think im the queen of that.
Thanks for this!
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