You know, I totally admit that I'm absolutely HORRIBLE about ever sending cards or letters to anyone. My in-laws are angels about sending cards to all their 9 children & spouses, grandchildren, great-grandchildren. I'm not. I have multiple chronic health conditions and one of the symptoms, I seriously forget about sending stuff to anyone. But when I remember I'll send something out but that's very rare. It sucks because I don't ever want to hurt anyone's feelings. I love them all soooo much. I've been trying to makes notes on a calender to try and remember. I get so disappointed in myself.
BUT, unlike your friend from the sounds of it, it sounds like my situation can be more 'real' for lack of a better word.
If you know your friend is like this, just accept her. It's like a marriage for better or worse. You have to decide if what's she's doing is soooo bad that you can't look past it.

Peace

OCEAN

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Impala said:
I just don't understand it though-why not very long ago send me a birthday card if she doesn't,on some level,want to continue the friendship? That was totally unexpected after how she'd broken off contact.Could it be that she's more ill than ever,or am I just giving her the benefit of the doubt-again!!?

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