This girl and I had been VERY close before all of her crap and she suffers from low self esteem and that is about it. She just quit going to her Dr. b/c the therapist told her she didn't need meds all she needed to do is take responsibility for her actions and so she quit going. I happen to know the Dr. and she is a great dr. this girl is just looking for something else to blame but in all reality she is just an %#@&#!. Thank you though twirls I do think it is great to see people care and are offering support and ideas to help. Have a great day and thanks for your ideas.