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Originally Posted by Kruick
Oh please please read my post on Gaslighting. In it is your salvation. I just got out of the EXACT same thing. Never confront him with evidence, he may get psychotic. Had he had episodes where it seems like he's lost touch with reality? Best thing is to give all the evidence to a divorce attorney while securing custody of your children.
You are the victim of a narcissist. His goal is to make you dependent on him as he only seeks control over what you think and feel. Don't react to the obvious BS he hurls in your direction. Your reactions feed his ego. Not reacting and being indifferent will drive him insane. Get a video camera for evidence.
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Unfortunately I have seen when he seems to lose touch with reality.
I have looked into his face and eyes and he wasn't even someone I recognized. Like he had been possessed and was no longer in his body, in fits of rage for what seemed so elementary a reason.
Yes I know about not confronting him about anything that sheds a bad light on him or when he's caught up in his stories and betrayal. I will try and find your post on gaslighting. Thanks for your input,