(Hopefully this is the right board to post this too T-T)
(please don't get to mad about this, I seriously don't understand)

I don''t see the point of putting family bonds on some sort of pedestal and making it the most important bond one can have? Whats so important about it and why does society force us to pretend to care about these people? Just cause they are related by blood doesn't really mean anything. Also in that train of thought, why does it seem like people think you have to be indebted to your parents for doing the basic stuff they a suppose to do? If they didn't feed, cloth and take care of you it would be considered neglect and is quite illegal. Another argument is that it's cause one of them gave birth to you but that also not anything special? Like all the other humans on this planet that have given birth have done the same thing. These all seem like such superficial reasons to care about someone, I think you should care about them cause they give you a reason to not just cause you happen to be related to them, cause you actually like them and enjoy their company. I don't feel like their bonds are any more special than the bonds I have with my friends. I feel pretty indifferent to my family, and my bond with them, they also aren't the most important people in my life. Does anyone else feel the same?