I know what you mean. If my DH tries to talk dirty to me to get us in the mood I start to freak out. Because my abuser talked nasty to me. It obviously triggers you too. It takes time to work through it.
Prayers
Ocean

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I have abuse issues in my past. Everytime I date, I get so turnoved off when a guy tries to touch me. I keep thinkign.. when I find the right guy that I'm attracted to that I won't feel like this, but im never attracted to them. The closer they get, the more disgusted i am. Im not sure . Im afriad i'll never fix this part of me and dont know how. :-(

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