well, my patient's family has been torn asunder over all this......the sister that used to live there told the one that is there now that she was going to move back in and stay til April, my leaving date, and was told that if she did that, it would put her sister and bro-in-law without a home. they gave their $l00k+ home to a son who doesn't work.....so naturally this has all played out the way it was planned. that left the first sister with the choice of me or them. i certainly understand her decision. i picked up my things that were there and was given a severance paycheck....thank God for the first sister. she and the brother insisted upon that. i was not allowed to go into see the patient. that really tears me up....but the rest of the family will go by more often and will be checking her meds, etc. however, the med issue can be gotten around by just throwing a pill away every day.......this makes me so sad..........pat