Congrats again on the three month mark! I wrote before that your family will see the changes in you as you continue to keep the plug in the jug; I'm sure they already have. Do you feel OK with not sharing your milestone with your family? One possible advantage of not doing so is that it might not remind them of your drinking bouts quite as much. Again it's all about the change they see in you. Conversely, are you disappointed that they haven't mentioned your sobriety date? If so, how can you resolve it to your satisfaction?