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Originally Posted by continuosly blue
I can’t believe this thread has gone on as long as it has. Let’s get back to the real issues here. Shadix , you are in need of some good therapy. You are merely immature, have very low confidence, self esteem and certainly lack experience.
Let’s be real here. Your just looking for loose women in a foreign country.
Plain and simple. You are upset that you can’t afford to head over to wherever right now. You think over 30 is old. You are afraid you won’t get laid when you aren’t so pretty anymore. How sad. You have a lot to learn.
Watch out for transmittable diseases !
Good luck dude.
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As I already explained, it is not that simple.
First off, you seem to be suggesting it is primarily about sex. If it was merely about sex, there are tons of "working girls" that you don't need to be young or attractive in order to have sex with. I made it very clear that my interest in women goes far beyond just sex.
Furthermore, there is way more to my obsession with travel than just women. There are many places I can go to meet women, including the particular place my friend went, which have very nice weather during the winter months. But like I said, I have particular places I wamt to go because I am interested in visiting those places for reasons other than meeting women, and the highest priority places are not nice during the winter.
People keep bringing up STDs, but I don't see that as being much if an issue, considering we have condoms. If casual sex isn't your thing, that's fine, but there really is no case to be made for it being inherently harmful or dangerous.
And yes, I am in therapy, but I am honestly starting to think there isn't much therapy can do in my situation. Depression because of not being able to do the things you love isn't a mental disorder that can be cured. A therapist isn't going to rewire my brain so that I don't care about traveling, meeting girls, etc. nor are they going to help me to acheive those experiences.
And again I want to reiterate:
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Originally Posted by Shadix
No more judgy comments.
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