youOme, </font><blockquote><div id="quote"><font class="small">Quote:</font>
I think people are influenced by their parents more then anybody else at any age...still I look up to my mother for guidance and I am a 22 year old college student

</div></font></blockquote><font class="post"> Yeah, I think that's a very good point-- thank you. I think it's great you have your mom to look to for guidance. (I think that's part of my struggles-- never had any guidance at any age and so to this day I still get confused )

Ocean13, </font><blockquote><div id="quote"><font class="small">Quote:</font>
IMO Honesty is the best policy.

</div></font></blockquote><font class="post"> I agree with you too. And I do speak honestly to my husband and let him know I don't approve.... just maybe he doesn't take me seriously or doesn't think it's a problem....... </font><blockquote><div id="quote"><font class="small">Quote:</font>
Stay strong-Be honest!

</div></font></blockquote><font class="post"> I will try my hardest! thank you.